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Tips for Unposed Candid Prompts for Families and Couples

As a family and couples photographer, capturing authentic and candid moments can elevate your work from ordinary to extraordinary! As cheesy as that sounds, its true! Families and couples cherish photos that reflect true emotions and genuine interactions. Here are some tips to help you create the perfect unposed candid prompts that convey authenticity and joy.



Pro-Tip

I always ask clients to feel comfortable throughout the session to tell me these three things at any time:

  1. Specific Pose Requests: If there is a specific pose or something they want to do, let me know and we can get it done! The little kiddo's always have an idea for a fun family photo idea.

  2. Personality Fit: If anything is not their personality, let me know so I can suggest something else. Some families may not be the holding hand type, which is okay. Instead, we can adjust and have them walk more casually, or if they’re "too cool for school," have them do a dramatic walk that makes them look like they’re straight out of an album cover.

  3. Recreating Photos: If there is a photo from their past they want to recreate, let me know. Sometimes families have shots they’ve been doing since day one, or a couple always recreates their wedding pose, etc.



Hold hands and run towards the camera
Family Prompt; Hold hands and run towards the camera
Prompt: Same as before but this time have Mom & Dad chase them towards the camera

1. Encourage Movement

One of the best ways to capture candid moments is to encourage your subjects to move. Adjust your shutter speed to 1/600+ and use a wider aperture for the best results. Movement brings out natural expressions and interactions that make the images memories not just photos.


For Families: These activities will help you capture playful and fun family photos that are anything but cheesy. You can do these poses either as a family or pared up.

  • Walk hand-in-hand

  • Chase each other

  • Hold hands and run towards the camera

  • Play a game of tag

  • Dance party

  • Mama duck and her babies following the leader

  • Father and daughter slow dance

For Couples: Movement will highlight their connection and bring out their true emotion, especially for those who are a bit shy.

  • Ask them to dance together like they do at home

  • Twirl (for best results, have them hold their hands away from you to ensure no one's face is covered & ask the dominant partner who is twirling the other to put their hand closer to you in their pocket; this helps avoid unflattering poses caused by using that hand for balance).

  • Playful piggyback ride (have them look at each other or give quick kisses on the side of the face)

2. Candid Prompts to Create Interaction

Prompts that encourage interaction help to draw out genuine reactions.


For Families: Have them share a story, tell a joke, or play a game like "Simon Says." These prompts will result in candid expressions and interactions perfect for a documentary family photographer aiming to capture unposed moments.

  • Share a story

  • Tell a joke

  • Play "Simon Says"

For Couples: Ask them to whisper secrets to each other, share a favorite memory, or pretend they're on their first date. This will evoke natural smiles and affectionate glances.

  • Whisper secrets

  • Share a favorite memory

  • Pretend they’re on their first date

  • Who can kiss the sexiest?



Who Did it better?
Prompt: Hold her by the chin and pull her in for a sexy kiss
Now her turn grab him by the face and pull him for kiss



3. Use Props Creatively

Props can add a playful element to your photos and make your subjects feel more comfortable.



For Families: Suggest bringing along a favorite toy, a picnic blanket, or a set of bubbles. This can make the session feel like a fun family outing rather than a formal photoshoot.

  • Picnic blanket

  • Bubbles

  • Sand, Water, the Elements

For Couples: Flowers, a vintage bicycle, or even a shared coffee can create a dreamy photographer's vision of unposed romance.

  • Flowers

  • Vintage bicycle

  • Shared coffee

  • Sunglasses

Check out my blog post "How to Prepare for your Photography Experience?" - it includes some ideas for some great props for your next photoshoot.


4. Prompt Genuine Connection

Help your photography clients connect with each other in ways that bring out natural and authentic emotions.



For Families: Ask parents to tickle their kids or give them a bear hug. Capture the giggles and squirming for authentic, candid photos.

  • Tickle fight

  • Bear hug

  • For teens I have them hug and face their parent tell them one reason they are proud of their mom or dad


For Couples: These moments of connection will produce true emotion and intimate photographs.

  • Look into each other’s eyes

  • Share what they love most about each other

  • Forehead to forehead - close eyes and try to sync each other's breathing

Family Photo Prompt: Space out and Jump -This is the moment after they all jumped and giggled

5. Incorporate the Environment

Using the environment can help your subjects feel more at ease and act naturally.


For Families: Have them explore a park, climb rocks, or walk through a field. The changing scenery will keep them engaged and less focused on the camera.

  • Explore a park

  • Climb rocks

  • Walk through a field

  • Jump in the water


For Couples: Capture them in places that are meaningful to them, like a favorite café or a scenic overlook. These locations will inspire natural interactions and help tell their unique story.

  • Favorite café

  • Scenic overlook

  • Tell them to continue to talk to eachother for a more natural look



6. Encourage Playfulness

It's okay if you get some bloopers, they tend to be a secret favorite. May not be the ones they post or print but they will be the ones that will be their phone background and cherish memories forever.


For Families: Ask kids to play their favorite game or show off their latest trick. Capture parents joining in or watching with pride. These moments will result in fun family photos bursting with personality.

  • After posing them for a classic family shot ask them to smile at with their teeth ( Dads love pointing);

  1. Smile at "Who is the best cook"

  2. Smile at "Who is the loudest"

  3. Smile at "Who has the stinkiest/loudest farts "

  4. Simply have them simply HAHA! at eachother

For Couples: Encourage playful activities like a tickle fight or a spontaneous dance. These prompts will bring out their carefree side and lead to truly candid shots.

  • Tickle fight

  • Lick each other

  • Growl

  • Make favorite animal noise in each others ear

  • Spontaneous dance - Tell the more masculine partner in the beginning of the photo-session to spontaneously throughout the shoot twirl or pull their partner in for a kiss when they arent expecting it.

7. Capture the In-Between Moments

Some of the most authentic photos happen between the posed shots.

For Families: Keep your camera ready as they transition between activities, adjust their clothes, or share a quiet moment.

  • Transition between activities

  • Adjust clothes

  • Share a quiet moment

  • Cuddling a crying infant


For Couples: Capture the moments when they think you're not shooting, like when they’re walking hand-in-hand or sharing a quiet laugh.

  • Fixing the others hair & Adjust clothes

  • Helping fluff the dress

  • Sharing a quiet laugh


8. Include Pets and Animals

Incorporating pets and animals into the photoshoot can add a layer of fun and warmth, making the session feel more relaxed and natural.


For Families: Pets are often considered part of the family, so including them in the photos can capture the true essence of the family dynamic. Pro tip- Make sure you are at a location that allows pets!

  • Have the family walk their dog together

  • Let the kids play fetch with the dog

  • Capture a quiet moment of the family cuddling with their pet

For Couples: Including a pet can showcase the couple’s shared love and add a playful element to the photoshoot.

  • Have the couple walk their dog while holding hands during your photoshoot

  • Capture a moment of them sitting on a blanket with their pet

  • Let the couple play with their pet and capture the laughter and joy



9. The Far-Away Documentary Shot

I typically end with this documentary-styled shot during my sessions for a grand finale. The far-away distance candid capture allows you to capture your subjects in a truly unposed manner.

  • Tell them you're going to take a step back and adjust your lens, then take photos from a distance.

  • Before moving farther away for the perfect capture; encourage them to interact as if they are at home or how they would be if no one was there.

  • Let them enjoy each other's company however they want, capturing the essence of their relationship in the most natural way possible.




By incorporating these candid prompts and techniques, you can create authentic photos that families and couples will cherish forever.


As a documentary family photographer, your goal is to capture true emotion and genuine connections, resulting in images that are both dreamy and authentic.

Embrace the unposed moments and let your clients natural interactions shine through!

 

For more tips and inspiration, visit Colleen's Captures and follow on Instagram @Colleens.Captures Happy shooting!


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